Whenever a special gift-giving occasion arrives, you anticipate something special from your partner. But while some people know that they're in relationships with great gift-givers, others dread what they might receive this time. Will it be something useful but boring? Something where the thought is there, but it's just not right for you? Or maybe something that you would never ask for in a million years? If you're fed up with receiving gifts that don't make you happy, it might be time to make a change. Some people just aren't great at choosing gifts and need a little help. But if you don't want to hand over a list, you could try some gentle nudging in the right direction.
Talk About Your Favorite Flowers
Flowers are a staple gift for any occasion. They're great ways to show someone that you love them and are thinking about them, no matter where you are. But giving the right flowers to someone isn't always easy. If you want to make sure you get Valentine's flowers that you love from your partner, talk about your favorites so they can take note. And if you want to give them flowers in return, you'll also have an idea of what they like and will enjoy the most.
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Let Your Partner in on Your Hobby
Buying your partner something related to one of their hobbies can be an excellent idea, but it can also feel like a minefield. Your partner might want to surprise you with something you'll love but be unsure about what's what and what you already have. While you don't have to do everything together, it's nice to share your hobby with your partner in some way. Whether it's talking about it or showing them some things you've made, it can give them ideas about what would be appropriate to buy you as a gift.
Window Shop for Clothes and Accessories
Anything wearable can be tricky to buy as a gift. You have to get the size right, and you need to choose the right style too. So a lot of people will avoid buying this type of gift, which is disappointing if it's just the sort of thing that you love. One of the best ways to give some hints is to go window shopping and point out some things that you like. Of course, there's always the modern equivalent of window shopping too - browsing your favorite stores online. Targeted advertising may come in handy here, showing your partner ads of the things you've been looking at!
Suggest Some Time Together
If you're not so much a material person, maybe you can inspire your partner to give you a different kind of gift. Spending time together can be a gift on its own, and it can also save you from terrible (although well-meaning) gifts that you're never really going to enjoy. Both time together at home or out and about can be better than flowers or chocolates.
Sometimes to get a gift you'll love, you have to communicate your wishes clearly. Sharing some inspiration with your partner can be the perfect way to ensure you get a great gift.
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