Thursday, February 5, 2026

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Why It’s Okay to Be Absolutely Obsessed with Buff City Soap’s "Narcissist" #SudsWithShade

Disclosure: I was sent samples from Buff City Soap in exchange for an honest review. All views shared are mine and mine alone.




Valentine’s Day is agonizingly close, with only 9 days to go. Are you panicked yet? And are you still staring blankly at generic boxes of chocolates in the aisle? Stop. Put down the teddy bear holding the tiny heart. We can do better.  You can do better!

Whether you are shopping for your boo, your bestie (Galentine’s shoutout!), or let’s be real, for yourself (the most important love of all), I have found the ultimate answer.

It’s colorful, it’s plant-based, it smells intoxicatingly good, and it has the cheekiest name ever.

I’m talking about Buff City Soap and their cult-favorite scent: Narcissist.


Now, I know what you’re thinking. "Narcissist? For Valentine's Day?" But hear me out. In the world of Buff City Soap, "Narcissist" doesn't mean an inflated ego. Instead, it means you are obsessed with smelling unbelievably amazing, and you aren't afraid to show it! It’s a little bit fruity, a little bit earthy, and completely addictive. Think sophisticated notes of peach, raspberry, and dark patchouli. It’s the kind of scent that makes people stop and ask, "Wait, what are you wearing?"

The wonderful team at Buff City Soap sent me a "Narcissist" care package to test drive some of their popular products just in time for V-Day, and y’all… I get the hype and I am fully converted!

Here is my review of the goodies I received and why they need to be in your gift bag this year, or on the top of your wish list you know you write up and sneak into your sweetie's wallet to help with gift shopping.

The "Me Day" Essentials

My Personal Review of Buff City Soap:

I received four items designed to turn a regular Tuesday night into a spa experience thanks to the kind folks at Buff City Soap: The Narcissist Body Wash, the famous Laundry Soap, a classic Bar Soap, and a fluffy green Loofah.

The Narcissist Bar Soap & Loofah Combo

Let’s start with the OG. Buff City Soap is famous for their visually stunning, handmade bar soaps. My bar of Narcissist was almost too pretty to use with swirls of vibrant colors that look like exquisite marble.


But use it I did! Paired with the bright green loofah they sent, the lather was insane. It’s creamy, moisturizing, and filled my entire bathroom with that incredible peach-patchouli scent. OMG!

It didn’t leave my skin feeling tight or stripped like drugstore soap. I just felt soft and smelled expensive.

The Narcissist Body Wash

Sometimes you just want the convenience of a bottle of body wash over lathering up with a loofah and bar of soap. This body wash is pure luxury. It’s silky smooth and feels incredibly hydrating on the skin.


Honestly, stepping out of the shower after using this made me feel like a million bucks. The scent lingers beautifully on the skin and is not overpowering; just a subtle hint that lasts for hours. If you want to gift someone the feeling of a high-end hotel shower every morning, this is definitely the product for them!

The Narcissist Laundry Soap (Game Changer Alert!)


Okay, this was the product I was most curious about. I’m very picky about laundry detergent. But this? This is the dark horse winner of the bunch.

This powdered laundry soap is boosted with baking soda, so it actually cleans my clothes while making them smell divine. Doing laundry is usually a chore I dread, but opening the washing machine and getting a hit of that raspberry-peach goodness changed the game.

My towels? Fluffy and fragrant. My favorite hoodie? Now smells like a hug from my favorite Buff City Soap scent. It turns the mundane task of washing clothes into a little act of self-care. Highly recommend adding this to a gift basket for something unique any time of the year!

THE V-DAY SCOOP: How to Get FREE Soap!


Okay, if my glowing review hasn't convinced you that you must try Buff City Soap and their popular Narcissist product line, then this definitely will.

Buff City Soap knows we’re all a little obsessed, so they are running an amazing promotion right now.

It’s called the #SudsWithShade promotion. They are giving away a FREE Narcissist item if you participate.

Here is the deal: It’s a fun, interactive way to engage with their brand and score free product. But you have to hurry, because this promotion ends on Valentine’s Day (February 14th)!


Do not sleep on this. If you want to try the scent that everyone is talking about for free, you need to get on it now. Or, if you have someone in mind that embodies the term "Narcissist," then this is that unexpected gift that will leave them scratching their head as they try to figure out who sent it.



Click here to learn exactly how to snag your free Narcissist product from Buff City Soap: BuffCitySoap.com/pages/narc

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Final Thoughts:

Valentine's Day is about love, and honestly, what says "I love you" better than helping someone smell absolutely irresistible?



Ditch the boring gifts this year. Head on over to a Buff City Soap store near you (if you are lucky to have a brick and mortar store to shop at locally), if not, head on over to their website and fill your checkout basket with Narcissist products (and maybe a bath bomb or two), and win gift-giving this year. Your partner, your friends, and your own skin will thank you!

Happy Sudsing! XO


 Disclosure: I was sent samples from Buff City Soap in exchange for an honest review. All views shared are mine and mine alone.

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Wednesday, February 4, 2026

The Ultimate "Hint-Drop" Gift Guide: Why Every Mom Needs a Wrap Up by VP Robe This Valentine’s Day - Review and #Giveaway

Disclosure: I was sent a sample from the vendor in exchange for an honest review. All views shared are mine and mine alone. 


Let’s be real, Mamas: Valentine’s Day is usually about the kids' school Valentine's card exchange and party, and making sure everyone else feels the love. But, this year, why not try something new, and reclaim the "heart" in the holiday. If you’re tired of the predictable box of chocolates that you end up sharing with everyone else anyway, flowers that die a week later after you work hard to keep them alive, or lingerie that’s more fussy than functional, then I have found the ultimate gift to add to your Valentine's Day wish list.



Meet Wrap Up by VP and their line of chic robesFounded by Moroccan designer Valerie Perez, this brand is the gold standard in luxury resort and spa wear. Usually found in high-end boutiques and five-star resorts, these pieces are designed to make you feel confident and beautiful while being actually comfortable.

Why It’s the Perfect "Treat Yourself" or Hint-Drop Item...




  • The "Wearable Love Note": The Heart Collection is playful and romantic, but chic enough to wear all year round. It’s not just a robe; it’s a reminder for moms to slow down and enjoy a little "me time".

  • Luxe Without the Bulk: We’ve all had those robes that make us feel like a marshmallow. These are different. The fabric is buttery-soft and plush, giving you that "spa day" warmth without the extra weight.

  • Effortless & Practical: For the mom who does it all, these are machine washable. You get that "sexy" aesthetic in feminine florals and silks, but it’s made for real life (yes, even life with sticky toddler fingers).

My Personal Review of The Bliss Rose Gold Kimono (No Stones):

If I had to describe the Bliss Rose Kimono in one word, it would be effortless. When I first unboxed it, I was immediately struck by the color. It’s that perfect, sophisticated "dusty rose", feminine without being too girly, and it has this subtle, expensive-looking sheen that makes you feel like you’re staying at a five-star resort or day spa, instead of just standing around in your kitchen.

The Fabric & Feel:  I opted for the "no stones" version because as a mom, I need my luxury to be low maintenance. This is the "Poly silk" fabric Wrap Up by VP is famous for and let me tell you, it lives up to the hype! It’s incredibly lightweight and breathes beautifully, but it doesn't feel flimsy. It has a "cool to the touch" sensation that is heaven when you’re getting ready in a steamy bathroom or lounging on a sunny Saturday morning.

The Fit:  What I love most about the kimono silhouette is the drape. Unlike those heavy, terry-cloth robes that can feel bulky and unflattering, this cinches perfectly at the waist. The sleeves are wide and elegant in true kimono style, but they aren't so long that they get in the way when you’re pouring your coffee or chasing little ones around the house. It hits that sweet spot of being "sexy" enough for a date night in, but modest enough to wear around the house.

My Verdict: Is it practical? Surprisingly, yes! It’s machine washable, which is a non-negotiable for me. But more importantly, it’s a "mood-shifter." The second I tie the belt, I feel less like a "tired mom" and more like a woman who prioritizes her own comfort. It’s the ultimate "me-time" uniform.

**Mom Tip: If you want that spa-day feeling every single morning, this is the one to put at the top of your list. It’s the kind of gift you’ll actually use every day, long after the Valentine’s flowers have faded.


My Top Picks for Your Wishlist from Wrap Up by VP


The Heart Kimono Robe - The Ultimate Valentine's Day vibe, as it is playful yet sophisticated.


The Pink Martini Short Robe - Perfect for a Galentine's night in


The Sandy Rose Silky Kimono - A flattering, belted kimono in a stunning sandy rose


Creating Your "Me Time" Ritual

Whether you are dropping a not-so-subtle hint to your significant other or hitting "add to cart" for yourself (highly recommend!), this robe is an investment in your peace. Imagine it: The house is finally quiet. You slip on your Wrap Up robe, grab a hot cup of coffee (or a large glass of wine—no judgment!), and finally open that book you’ve been meaning to read. It’s about more than just clothes; it’s about those rare moments of uninterrupted calm.

Ready to wrap yourself in luxury? Follow them on Instagram @WrapUpbyVP for more styling inspiration, and read on for a chance to win a Wrap Up by VP robe for yourself!


-- Giveaway --

I am so excited to partner with Wrap Up by VP to give one of my lucky readers a chance to win a Wrap Up by VP robe of their own.


PSA: Valentine’s Day is in 10 days and I’m officially declaring it the Year of the Robe.

Let’s be honest, Mamas—we spend all day taking care of everyone else. This year, I’m dropping hints for something that actually feels like a hug. I’ve discovered @WrapUpbyVP and I am obsessed. Their robes are basically a wearable love note. They are all buttery soft, chic, and perfect for that 5-minute coffee window before the kids wake up, or after showering after a long day.

I want one of YOU to feel this pampered, too! I’ve teamed up with @WrapUpbyVP to give away one luxury robe of your choice! Good luck!

Wrap Up by Valerie Perez Robe Giveaway


Disclosure: I was sent a sample from the vendor in exchange for an honest review. All views shared are mine and mine alone. 
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Monday, February 2, 2026

This Valentine's Day, Gift Buff City Soaps' Popular Narcissist Scent FREE to a Narcissist #SudsWithShade





More About This Promotion:

"Buff City Soap®, a plant-based home and personal care brand, is doing Valentine’s Day a little differently. Now through Feb. 14*, everyone can visit BuffCitySoap.com/Narc and gift – for free – its most popular scent, Narcissist, to a narcissist in their lives who already loves himself or herself enough. It’s a playful way to anonymously send suds – and shade – right to their door.     

Buff City Soap’s most beloved scent, Narcissist, can be experienced across more than 20 products including soap bars, bath bombs, body wash, laundry soap, candles, car air fresheners and more. Narcissist is a fan favorite with more than 2.6 million units sold in-store and online in 2025.

As part of the Valentine’s Day giveaway, consumers can now visit BuffCitySoap.com/Narc to gift one of three free Narcissist products – bar soap, body wash or car air freshener – to send a subtle yet shade-filled message. As a bonus, those who receive the gift get a discount on a future purchase. Act fast as this FREE offer ends on Valentine's Day, February 14, 2026!

What does Buff City Soap’s Narcissist smell like? Subtle yet luxurious, combining the sweetness of raspberry and peachwood with the warm embrace of patchouli and sandalwood.

“Valentine’s Day is all about love and nobody loves themselves quite like a narcissist,” said Rebecca Latacz, Chief Marketing Officer at Buff City Soap. “Narcissist has always been our most-loved scent, so this February we’re embracing its popularity and letting the scent do the talking for consumers. Narcissist smells great and sends a message. What that message is depends entirely on who you choose to gift it to.”

All Buff City Soap products are plant-based made with simple ingredients and free from harsh chemicals, and are available across its more than 200 local Makeries nationwide.

While Narcissist products are exclusively available at Buff City Soap retail locations nationwide and online year-round, visit BuffCitySoap.com/Narc now to send (or receive) a free Valentine’s Day gift."

*Limit one per person. Quantities are limited. Valid only while supplies last.

About Buff City Soap®
Founded in Memphis, Tennessee and headquartered in Dallas, Texas, Buff City Soap® is on a mission to make life smell wonderful with plant-based soaps, bath, body, laundry and many other products for every room in your home. The brand specializes in high-quality products handmade daily in stores by dedicated Soap Makers, crafted with nourishing, plant-based ingredients and free from harsh chemicals. Buff City Soap® is known for its national top selling scent, Narcissist, and its unique custom scent making experience, Buff By You. The brand currently operates in over 200 locations nationwide, bringing simple ingredients and an engaging retail experience to communities through its network of franchise operators. Follow Buff City Soap on InstagramFacebook, and TikTok for updates and inspiration. Plant-based and handmade daily so you can smell wonderful.

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